Crossway practices baptism by immersion for those who have put their trust in Jesus. This was the pattern for those who were baptized in the New Testament. Babies are not able to understand the story of Jesus and put their trust in him. Therefore, Crossway does not practice infant baptism. Crossway does celebrate new births once a year at a Parent and Baby Dedication Service.
Since Crossway does not baptize infants, parents occasionally ask about the appropriate age at which their child should be baptized. It is true that children can trust Jesus in ways appropriate to their various stages of development (ages). This trust should be nurtured and developed primarily by their parents and supplemented by the church at every age.
Baptism, however, carries a great deal of symbolism and meaning behind the act. In short, it is a declaration that trust has been placed in Jesus and that one is a Christ-follower. It is identification with the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus, as well as identification with the church.
Research suggests that children do not cognitively grasp symbolism and the meanings behind symbols until roughly 8-10 years of age. Therefore, the Elders of Crossway strongly encourage children to be at least 8-10 years of age before being baptized. It is our belief that by waiting until at least that time, baptism will be much more meaningful to both the child and the parents. It will also leave a greater imprint upon the child’s heart and soul.
There is no reason to limit or delay a child’s spiritual development prior to that age just because the act of baptism has not taken place. There are many more aspects to a child’s spiritual development than just baptism. Parents should be nurturing their child’s faith in various ways so that baptism will be the natural course as the child gets older. Finally, if the parent is an immersed believer in Jesus, it is our hope that they will baptize their child when that exciting day does come.